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Originally Posted by herbieh
An erotic thought for me is potentially running in to a provider or hobbyist in their day job (if they have one).
Knowing something naughty about them but seeing them act "not" naughty is quite the turn on...
I've got a day job and a life noone would know about outside my limited hobby life....what about y'all? 
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I have had this experience, several times; just stay cool and act as if nothing has happened - even if you both make eye contact. One never knows what is really going on with the other person; it is better to play safe, respect her situation and not confuse the two worlds you both live in. It is called respect, and I have been highly thanked at a later time. There have also been times when she has indicated it is ok to talk.
Kinda like running into an undercover cop you that was a close friend in high school: you don't ask him if he is still woking as a cop, or address him by his real name! Give him the chance to address you first, or keep quiet and cool about the situation.