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Old 11-23-2018, 01:14 PM   #16
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Nice one John Doe.. You used 'Pegging' and 'She-Bang' in the same sentence.
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Old 11-23-2018, 01:24 PM   #17
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Plenty of Dom guys here, but since a really good Dom/sub session takes a lot of trust, it's typically hard to get submissive providers to join in. The usual 1 hour visit is not enough time to get to know a partner well enough to have a good session. It would require at least several sessions, with a lot of that time spend talking. So few providers bother advertising that they are sub, or answering ISO's from Dom guys seeking a sub provider.
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Old 11-23-2018, 05:25 PM   #18
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I'm naturally SUB so it's so so so delicious to me !!!!

I both hate and love this thread!!!! It has gotten me so hot and worked up!!!!

Mmmmmmmmmmmm.....
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Old 11-23-2018, 06:40 PM   #19
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I'm just confused on this whole feel comfortable thing ! Communication is the key & I would think getting to know how someone is like through messages is a good start.. I just can't see myself with someone who comes and sees me off my persona of being a smartass into a session so we can get comfortable! Then to switch into me being a sub I don't think I could switch lol..

I'm just a different type of provider I respect and definitely understand everyones point of view thought & I appreciate everyone's feed back..
I definitely prefer a submissive lover. Itís one of those things that gets better each time with increased comfort with each other. At least for me. The whole Dom/sub thing is really different from one person to another. I see a girl now that involves things that I never thought I would do. Making sure she feels safe is the concern.
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Old 11-23-2018, 06:49 PM   #20
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I am submissive by nature and I love a good Dom/Sub session. Communication is definitely a must. I’m just now exploring my Dom side and I love that too! So, I guess that makes me a switch! Lol

Oh... and I think domination definitely starts in the mind before anything happens BCD! Just my thoughts!
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Old 11-23-2018, 06:49 PM   #21
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I am submissive by nature and I love a good Dom/Sub session. Communication is definitely a must. Iím just now exploring my Dom side and I love that too! So, I guess that makes me a switch! Lol

Oh... and I think domination definitely starts in the mind before anything happens BCD! Just my thoughts!
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Old 11-23-2018, 11:06 PM   #22
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I love being a DOM and a Daddy but in Wichita Kansas there doesn't seem to be many that truly enjoy a DOM. YOU will have the special word that will back it off if you love DOM you know what I'm talking about. Pm me
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Old 11-24-2018, 11:20 AM   #23
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I love being a DOM and have enjoyed these sessions with many sub women. Any Houston provider interested? Please let me know.
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Old 11-25-2018, 09:17 AM   #24
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I used to see a submissive provider in Denver (maybe 5 times or so)...first session was relatively vanilla to me (furry paddle, light nipple clamps, orgasm control, etc) but as I saw her subsequent times we were both more comfortable with each other; a level of trust was established.

By the later sessions there was real bondage (handcuffs that require a key she could not access, ropes she could not untie on her own); blindfolds, actual paddles and whips, clover clamps with weights (both on nipples and pussy lips), ice and candle wax, orgasm denial, post-orgasm torture...I am sure I am forgetting some things.

The point is, you have to decide the pace of trust...if your not comfortable then the session will suck for both of you.

Taking the Dom role with a provider as the submissive takes multiple sessions to get to a good place where both parties actually enjoy/benefit from the session.
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Old 11-25-2018, 11:41 AM   #25
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Fetlife is a great place to look. I really enjoy a submissive provider and always ask about it. Some simple questions can save a lot of disappointment later. Of course limits have to be respected. Letting her know is so much better then surprising her with a red hot bottom. If it’s what you like and she says no then thank her for her time and move on.
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Old 11-25-2018, 12:21 PM   #26
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I saw two ladies to be a Sub but when i told them what I sought, it turned them on so much that I became the Dom; they really liked my dirty talk, so I took over and never looked back.

It was totally hot pushing THIER buttons. I learned I'm a Switch but I rarely go hobbying to be a Dom. I have my two little subbies already.
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Old 11-25-2018, 07:28 PM   #27
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I'm naturally SUB so it's so so so delicious to me !!!!

I both hate and love this thread!!!! It has gotten me so hot and worked up!!!!

Mmmmmmmmmmmm.....
I just saw Zena, a few days ago. She is defiantly into being a sub.I loved being her master and telling her what to do and not do.
It was very rewarding, being in control. It was a head rush from both heads.
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Old 11-25-2018, 11:38 PM   #28
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I'm naturally SUB so it's so so so delicious to me !!!!

I both hate and love this thread!!!! It has gotten me so hot and worked up!!!!

Mmmmmmmmmmmm.....
Bad girl! Go stand with your nose in the corner while I decide what to do with you.
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Old 11-26-2018, 09:06 AM   #29
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Fetlife is a great place to look. I really enjoy a submissive provider and always ask about it. Some simple questions can save a lot of disappointment later. Of course limits have to be respected. Letting her know is so much better then surprising her with a red hot bottom. If itís what you like and she says no then thank her for her time and move on.
I've tried Fetlife but it's confusing or I just don't have enough time to actually get into it. But everything else you say I totally agree!
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Old 11-26-2018, 09:23 AM   #30
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I just think it's less applicable to the hobby than outside the hobby. Do you, as a provider, really want to give up that much control to strangers? And does the Dom want to pay someone to dominate? Right there is a loss of control.
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